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Politics can suck. It’s still vitally important to vote.

This isn’t really a political post. No, seriously. I express my own political opinions largely in a Google+ post collection to keep them easy to see or opt out of. Rather, this post is about freedom — specifically, whether or not you are going to help ensure that we keep it.

VOTE! Not long ago, one of the pundits at FiveThirtyEight, “Whiz Kid” Harry Enten, declared that he would not vote in this year’s U.S. election. He is correct that all citizens have the right not to vote. In response, I wrote a short rant saying that he was hypocritical for being a political analyst, who is voluntarily not voting at all.

I also believe that it’s hypocritical to choose not to vote, and still complain about the outcome. As far as I’m concerned, if you choose to remove yourself from the equation, rather than participate in one of the most responsible acts of a citizen, you don’t get to complain about elected officials or their actions. (Conversely, if you do vote, you can complain all you want, whether your choice was elected or not. Hopefully, of course, using rational discussion and mutual education, rather than flamewars.)

The U.S. exists as it does becauseĀ We the People have been granted the fundamental right to choose our government. Those who represent us, on various levels, are elected by us, by tallying up one vote at a time per seat. You, me, and all other citizens form the HR department of this country’s governments. It’s our responsibility to choose whom we hire, and ideally to choose wisely.

I’ve always felt very strongly about this civic duty because basically everything else depends on it. People are required to keep the wheels turning, to handle the issues of over 310 million people: that’s the role of government. My single vote might not change the world, but it does declare that I have a voice in the direction of the nation’s future. So do you — but only if you choose to make use of it.

At the end of the day, I don’t necessarily care for whom you vote, as long as you do vote. Our freedoms depend on exercising them; squander your rights at all our peril.

So last night on FiveThirtyEight’s post-debate podcast (at 4:13), Harry Enten described how he finally came to realize the importance of participation in our civic institutions. If you listen to no other explanation of why voting is important, listen to this one:

(discussing Trump’s declaration that he would keep people in suspense about whether he would accept the election’s results)

Jody Avirgan: “…we’re three weeks out and we’re having these arguments about fundamental elements of our democracy. So, Harry, what did you make of that moment, or any other moments that stood out for you?”

Harry Enten: “Well, to me that was the moment. You know, I think we’ve had discussions before on this podcast, and I said that we have a right in this country to vote or not to vote, and that’s been a right that has been afforded to at least some Americans now for over 200 years. Obviously, we were slow in adopting that right to all Americans, but I believe we’ve come very close to that.

“But what I heard on that stage this evening, at least for me, was a candidate arguing that[…] it doesn’t necessarily matter what those results are Election Day; I might not necessarily say that those results are legitimate. And that’s very scary. And so understanding that, and understanding that he has some chance of winning, and this by his own words is — I don’t think it’s too crazy to say that if he were to win, there could be something that goes [away] in this country, and this may be the last time that we actually have votes in this country that matter.

“And so I just can’t personally stand by and accept that. And so I, myself, have been playing this back in forth in my own mind, whether or not to vote. I had come down previously as saying I was not going to, with the belief that we have the right to, or not to. But now knowing that perhaps we may not have that right in four years, I have no choice, but I am gonna vote.”

Black Lives Matter Toronto, you owe the world an apology.

(Added 5 July in response to questions directed to this author: If it isn’t clear by now, I support the BLM movement. Emphatically. But Pride doesn’t cause police brutality, just like Black History Month doesn’t cause gay bashing. Somewhere along the line, the idea of coming together to make a better future has been completely lost. I’ve expounded on this in the comments.)

Update, 5 July 2016: Toronto police officer Chuck Krangle wrote an open letter explaining his point of view, and why BLMTO’s actions and demands were downright exclusionary.


This weekend, Black Lives Matter Toronto pulled a stunt where they stalled the Pride parade to have an impromptu demonstration. I don’t know what else to say, besides What. The. Fuck!?

The whole point of a Pride parade is visibility. You wanted to march in the parade, the organizers gave you special honored position and billing, so you got that visibility. Great, right?

But this wasn’t enough for you, oh no. You had to take another minority’s time to show strength and decided to bully your way into the spotlight. Yes, I said “bully”. We LGBT+ people are very well versed in recognizing bullies for what they are, and you’ve hit the nail right on the head.
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The Pulse Orlando massacre: proof that gay bashing is alive and well

Update, 21 June: This issue is getting more contentious by the day. An interview by Univision (additional reporting) of a man claiming to be Mateen’s former friend-with-benefits has been released, again suggesting the circumstances described in this post. I suspect I’ll need to do a follow-up post when all this dust settles.

Update, 20 June: Various sources now have contradictory information about the Pulse Orlando gunman. U.S. government agencies claim there was no connection from him either to ISIL/ISIS or to gay hookup apps, e.g., he acted in isolation and was not actually a regular at the club. With this context added, I am leaving this post as it was originally written, because it still has an important message to convey.


I’m still fidgeting with the wedding ring on my left hand way too much. It feels alien to be there all the time, because I’ve only been wearing it for ten months. This despite the fact that Adam and I are only one month short of our twentieth real anniversary, since the simple act of marrying my husband wasn’t legal here until last year.

After the events of this past weekend, when nearly 50 people were gunned down in an Orlando, Florida gay bar, I longed to get back to writing. The massacre hit a little close to home, because it wasn’t so long ago that I was living in Orlando myself and scared for my future.

So with this post, I reopen my heart and my blog.

Post edited on 19 June to clarify the killer’s mental justification, with related reporting on intelligence agency reports.
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